I am reading a new book rite now entitled LOVE AS A WAY OF LIFE by Gary Chapman.The first chapter is about kindness.I would like to list down some genuine acts of kindess ppl has shown me in these years, those which I remember vividly.
1. My BM teacher who gave me RM1 to buy Milo when I was hungry and no money to buy food when I was standard 3 (9 years old).I still remember his name:Ng Chee Keong.He used to teased me as Hallelujah because I sing a lot in class.When I put on braces, he called me " Beautiful teeth".
2.My grandmother who gave me RM200 to pay for thesis binding and printing, as a result I graduated in time and scored a B+ for my degree thesis.
3.A volunteer in a camp, currently a pastor now(Pastor Richard Lee) who gave a listening ear to my problems in a teens camp.He established the Kenosis Drug rehabilitation centre.There is another counsellor in the camp who also is a very good listener named YEO SWEE LAN.I would like to thank her here and I really hope to meet her again.
4.My cousin Amy Tan who cooked me nice food when I was not feeling well.She brought me magazines such as CLEO, HOT and a book by Nicholas Sparks entitled "THE WEDDING"
5.My dear cousin Carina Chong who massaged for me when I was having a bad headache during Chinese New Year.
6.My Science teacher Puan Noraini when I was form 1 and form 2.She told me;" Your mother is your best friend"
6.My homeroom teacher when I was form 2, who taught me Sejarah and BM, named Cik Sri Devi, who was very kind to me when I needed help.
7.Pastor Stanley Lai who was a like a father to me.He always hug me when he comes to preach in my church and he was kind to me.
8.Pastor Eddie Tan who answers my call and sms when I needed his advice and prayer.He also offered to conduct postmarital counselling for me and shaun.Not many pastors does that.
9.Pastor Lim Hang Tang who helped me during my car accident.
10.Leong Kwai Chee, who prayed a lot for me when I am not feeling well.Thankyou so much for your concern.
11. My sis in law Gobby who always buy me gifts for my b'day.
12.My violin teacher, Prody who was so patient with me although I always skip class
13.My cousin Magdalene Koh who helped me get 2 second hand beading books from Singapore for a very good price.
14.My coursemate Melisa Ng who was nice to me and was thoughtful.
15.Hong Pik Tze, who gave me the book " The four seasons of marriage" as my wedding gift.
16.My dear junior Teh Jun Bin who gave me some good advise he has learnt at some motivation classes.
17.Jessie Chua who fetched me to work last time as Ernst and Young.
18.Emma Tang who lent me her original Guzheng book and was such a friendly girl
19.Shieh Yi Xin who recommended me some jobs to do.I will always remember the good times we had in Uni.
20.Yeo Hock Chai who helped me with my uni korean exam.without him, I would not have passed my korean test.Kamsahamnida!
21.Dr Chong Yew Yoong, who was my thesis advisor at Uni.He was so encouraging and humble and sacrifice his lunch time to discuss with me.You are the lecturer who made the greatest impact in my life.
22.A malay classmate during form 6 named Shahiratul Azmin.She was very nice to me but too bad we totally lost contact.I wish to see her again.
23.Mun Pit Wai and Yow Veng Wai, who were my 2 very best friends who migrated to overseas to study and work.You have made my life so wonderful.
24.Wong Kit ying who visited me when I had dengue fever.
25.Miss Moey Yoke Lai who taught me Bible knowledge and as a result I scored A1 in my SPM.
26.Jonathan Loo was a wonderful prayer warrior.I always sms him to pray for me when I needed help.
27.My cousin Isaac Koh who invited me to his graduation prom and he offered to pay half for me.
28.My aunt Fong Peck Wan who bought me lunch when I had fever and could not drive to buy food.
29.My uncle James Wong and Joy chen who bring me out for nice dinner during my b'days when I was young.We Went to eat at "The Ship" , and itallian food with my oth cousins.Pure fun!
30.My cousin Angelyn Wong who gave me a card and gift for my b'day this year.Her gift made my day.
31.Joyce Tan was a good listener during uni days and my accompanist for uni vocal exam.
32. Bernard Lee who was such a good salesman who served me very well when I buy beading supplies at the wholesaler.
33.Mrs Lim Hean Hwa who was such a wonderful BM teacher during form 6.
34. Seow Choon Hui who bought me 100 plus when I was thirsty in merentas desa.He also initiated to say hi to me.Now, we are still in contact.
35.Mr Wong, who repaired my violin for me for free.
36.Ms Yim Soi Chee, who got my bow rehaired for a good price.She took the trouble to always provide me good services although she is so busy.
37.Thean Kim Pin who helped to pass items to me.I always buy books and accesories through her.
38.My aunt Eunice Fung and Uncle Allan who took me out to nice dinner at Victoria Station on my 13th b'day.
29.My Aunt Johanna Fong who also took me out to nice dinner with uncle Eddie Lee during my b'day.I wil always remember the sushi king we ate and the Piccolo Mondo lasagne and ice blended mocha.Haha...And also the wonderful korean food, the OX tongue! I just ate ox tongue today, and I will always love ox tongue becoz you introduced it to me...
30.A very handsome british examiner named Dr Stephen when I was taking my gd 8 piano exam.He was such a gentleman and he opened the door for me when my exam was over.I got a merit.
31.My beautiful and sexy boss Shervon who is so gentle and kind to me and give me good advice.She gave birth to 2 children but still maintains a stunning figure and great fashion sense.
32.My boss Ms Tan who always pay my salary on time.She is one of the best boss I ever had.
33. Helen Lim Lay Kuan who recently gave me delicious macadamia nut chocolate from australia and offer to buy some more flavors for me. FYI, shaun and I fight over the chocolate.We can't resist eating it when we see it. haha...
34.Sister Loh Chui Gor who was the ex-youth advisor in my church.She gave me some advice and help me a lot.I wish she will come back to church with her husband uncle Richard Young.
35.Mrs Julie Yap, my maths and CF teacher who prayed for me when I am not feeling well.
36.Wong Tze Chi and Ng Guan Wen, 2 seniors who are so kind to me when I was in form 6 .Now they are practising doctors, waiting to earn big bucks.
37.Puan Chong Moy Yoong, a very nice Pengajian Am teacher in form 6.
38.Puan Goh Hwee Hong, a pretty Pengajian Perniagaan teacher in form 6.
39.Cikgu Nor Azman, my favourite BM tuition teacher at Pusat Tusyen Martin.You made BM and sejarah so interesting! You inspired me to draw comics about you.
40.Mr Kung, the most fantastic Modern maths teacher at Pusat tusyen Martin.Handsome, big sized and sweat a lot, very funny.By attending your class, I dun need to pay attention in school and still can score A1 For maths.
41.Puan Faezah, my Form 4 and Form 5 BM teacher who was concerned about my progress.She adds me in FACEBOOK and wished me happy b'day recently.
42.Chor Mun Fei, who lend me his 10k Violin to play for my composing exam in uni.Thanks to you, I scored A minus for the subject.I loved your violin, and it inspired me to buy a nice violin for myself too, which I did.Congrats on your masters studies in Springfield, USA. I bet you forget that such event happened and I remember it.
43..And lastly, the salesman who sold me this book(LOVE AS A WAY OF LIFE) at Salvation bookstore.Thankyou for recommending this wonderful book.May God bless you!
And my mum and younger bro and my darling Shaun, who has been kind to me so many times that I lost count and its not possible to post here.I love you guys very much and will continue to strife to learn to speak your love language.
I might have many other names which I have forgotten. Its 4.11 am now, gotta sleep.Got class tmr morn.I spent 2 hours compiling this long list of kindness.
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Sunday, May 27, 2012
Thursday, April 5, 2012
creative side and about my grandmother
I guess I inherited my interest in music from my mum and art and craft from my paternal grandmother.She was an avid sewer when she was younger, around 20 years ago.She used to make dresses, blankets, pants for me, curtains for the house etc.She was very smart and very good in doing business.Last time, she also sells vegetables at central market and earns quite a lot.She's 87 this year and her memory is losing.What do you expect?My relative's mum in law was diagnosed with Alzheimer at the age of 65! My grandmother is considered very lucky now.She can still walk around, but of course she gets tired very easily.She is currently living in flats, the 4th floor and there is no lift.She walks up and down almost everyday.Even those young salesman who climb the stairs to her house pant when they reach the top.
oh yes, I remember, when I was form 3 and doing sewing coursework for my kemahiran hidup test, we need to sew a baju Kedah.My grandmother helped me to sew and I passed the test! Suddenly I felt inspired to taking sewing classes! I started googling for the price of sewing machines in the internet.I would love to make my cheongsam one day, if time permits, and bags and evening gowns.Wow, being creative is endless.There are so many things to learn, yet so little time.I wish I don't need to work so hard in my fulltime job now so I have more time to be in tune with my creative side.Anyone can recommend me where to learn the art of making cheongsam from a sifu?Affordable fees anywhere?Ok, my location is in Kuala Lumpur.Hence I would prefer Klang valley area.
oh yes, I remember, when I was form 3 and doing sewing coursework for my kemahiran hidup test, we need to sew a baju Kedah.My grandmother helped me to sew and I passed the test! Suddenly I felt inspired to taking sewing classes! I started googling for the price of sewing machines in the internet.I would love to make my cheongsam one day, if time permits, and bags and evening gowns.Wow, being creative is endless.There are so many things to learn, yet so little time.I wish I don't need to work so hard in my fulltime job now so I have more time to be in tune with my creative side.Anyone can recommend me where to learn the art of making cheongsam from a sifu?Affordable fees anywhere?Ok, my location is in Kuala Lumpur.Hence I would prefer Klang valley area.
Sunday, March 18, 2012
Saturday, March 17, 2012
Me at a wedding
I was honored to be their wedding pianist.I purposely bought a full length red gown for this wedding, haha!
Friday, March 16, 2012
Saturday, February 25, 2012
Finally, New items
Hey, dear readers, hows life going on.I was MIA for quite some time.
Now I am back! I have made some new stuff!Guess what?Paper items this time.I made paper bags, envelopes, gift boxes, ribbon flowers, japanese paper dolls! It was so much fun doing all these handcraft.Will upload the photos later ya.I just started making them on wednesday, few days ago.The same day, somebody bought an envelope from me.And yesterday, on saturday, I sold 2 gift boxes and a mini paper bag!Wow, that was fast.Stay tuned ya!
Now I am back! I have made some new stuff!Guess what?Paper items this time.I made paper bags, envelopes, gift boxes, ribbon flowers, japanese paper dolls! It was so much fun doing all these handcraft.Will upload the photos later ya.I just started making them on wednesday, few days ago.The same day, somebody bought an envelope from me.And yesterday, on saturday, I sold 2 gift boxes and a mini paper bag!Wow, that was fast.Stay tuned ya!
Monday, January 16, 2012
Lenna Lim,The Pride and Joy of UM Music Faculty


Lenna Lim(right) is 2nd Runner of of Miss Chinese International Pageant 2012
I and Shaun watched the beauty pageant live on astro 311.It was really interesting that we don't want to go home because our house don't have astro.I was watching at my mum's place.My hubby said Lim Jia Bing has a big chance of winning champion since she also won 2 subsidiary titles. My favourite judge will be Laughing Gor( Michael Tse). I think he must be a really good kisser! Seeing the way he kiss on TVB dramas. haha.....
I think Lenna's performance was amazing! She answers the questions really well and fast.I was cracking my head when Eric Tsang asked those tough cultural questions.I dun even know the answer to anyone of those tough questions, but Lenna did! She is really smart.If she really teaches at a music school, I bet she will have lots of students due to her popularity:)
Sunday, November 27, 2011
My 2nd Wedding Anniversary and about kindness
Today marks my 2nd wedding anniversary. A lot of good things happened in the month of Nov.Yesterday, I received some good news frm my husband, not telling here.I also received a very expensive wedding anniversary gift from my dearest Mother. Also made lots of sales during the month of November, thanks to all my supporters.Looking forward to a wonderful December and the celebration of christmas.
During the month of November, I tried my very best to be nice to everyone I meet.Even if some "people "were not so nice to me, I never took revenge or defended myself . As a result, I find God's blessings pouring out to me more than before.Dear readers, try it, be nice to everyone, buat baik dibalas baik.Don't hurt others with your words or action, for it will come back to you in some other way one day. I see it with my own eyes that some people who were not so nice to me, screwed up themselves sometime or later.I am not boasting here, but God will avenge every bad thing you did to others.
Once, I was not so nice to "somebody", and God really really punished me.I had some very bad days, and that was during early October. Some "people" were really nice to me, and I see God blessing them in some ways, such as scoring good results in exams, becoming rich and prosperous etc
Being unkind to anyone does not do any good to you.It harms the person that you are unkind to, and also harm yourself because deep inside you, you don't feel really good for doing unkind things. Do you know everytime you mention unkind words about anybody, your body has a negative reaction which is not so good for you.You may feel superior stepping on others, but the fact is your body is not responding postively. Think about it, stop bullying others, stop being unkind to others.
Do you know that bullies have problems? if a person is very confident and happy or secured, he or she most likely won't be unkind to others.In fact, it is those insecure people who bullies other to feel superior about themselves. So, you who are reading this, if you think you are bullying someone right now, change! and I guarantee you will receive blessing in return.Do not repay evil for evil, but repay evil with good.
During the month of November, I tried my very best to be nice to everyone I meet.Even if some "people "were not so nice to me, I never took revenge or defended myself . As a result, I find God's blessings pouring out to me more than before.Dear readers, try it, be nice to everyone, buat baik dibalas baik.Don't hurt others with your words or action, for it will come back to you in some other way one day. I see it with my own eyes that some people who were not so nice to me, screwed up themselves sometime or later.I am not boasting here, but God will avenge every bad thing you did to others.
Once, I was not so nice to "somebody", and God really really punished me.I had some very bad days, and that was during early October. Some "people" were really nice to me, and I see God blessing them in some ways, such as scoring good results in exams, becoming rich and prosperous etc
Being unkind to anyone does not do any good to you.It harms the person that you are unkind to, and also harm yourself because deep inside you, you don't feel really good for doing unkind things. Do you know everytime you mention unkind words about anybody, your body has a negative reaction which is not so good for you.You may feel superior stepping on others, but the fact is your body is not responding postively. Think about it, stop bullying others, stop being unkind to others.
Do you know that bullies have problems? if a person is very confident and happy or secured, he or she most likely won't be unkind to others.In fact, it is those insecure people who bullies other to feel superior about themselves. So, you who are reading this, if you think you are bullying someone right now, change! and I guarantee you will receive blessing in return.Do not repay evil for evil, but repay evil with good.
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Korean food with Cousins and their significant other
List of successful personalised names bracelet and hp strap
I have an updated list of the customer's real orders for the personalised names thingy.There are total of 181 orders in just 5 weeks time.There are new orders everyday, and definitely more to come:) Click HERE to see the list of names:) Perhaps some of the names are same as your own name.Common names like Amy, Grace, Maria etc...
FYI, I also made some new designs for hair accesories as mentioned earlier, will post the pics up soon:) Thanks for your support and have a nice day!
Saturday, November 12, 2011
New Stock and New Design
I just bought some more new stock.I am kinda crazy about making hair accesories these days, especially with A ROSE THEME. I am still getting new orders everyday for the personalised names bracelet and hp strap.
Christmas is coming soon.I am going to promote carolling at my church.Hope that the response is good.We are also having a new pastor next year Feb.My pastor who conducted my wedding has left because of health conditions.This coming new pastor is very "in".He plays the saxophone, which is so sexy.I always think of saxophone as SEXYPHONE.Haha.Maybe I will ask him to teach me. I am still thinking whether to buy his saxophone coz he is selling to buy a better one.
There are so many things I want to learn.Dancing, make up class, yoga, play the saxophone, play erhu etc. So many things to do, so little time, and of course all these need moolah as well.Need to earn more money to fulfill my dream:) Yes, and still saving for a new violin.Keeping fingers crossed.
Christmas is coming soon.I am going to promote carolling at my church.Hope that the response is good.We are also having a new pastor next year Feb.My pastor who conducted my wedding has left because of health conditions.This coming new pastor is very "in".He plays the saxophone, which is so sexy.I always think of saxophone as SEXYPHONE.Haha.Maybe I will ask him to teach me. I am still thinking whether to buy his saxophone coz he is selling to buy a better one.
There are so many things I want to learn.Dancing, make up class, yoga, play the saxophone, play erhu etc. So many things to do, so little time, and of course all these need moolah as well.Need to earn more money to fulfill my dream:) Yes, and still saving for a new violin.Keeping fingers crossed.
Monday, November 7, 2011
Me and Hubby

This photo was taken recently in a korean restaurant in Seri Hartamas
Thanks to Amy!
We had an enjoyable time with my cousins and their significant other.
We are going to celebrate our 2nd wedding anniversary on 28 Nov 2011. 2 years have passed so fast.We had a challenge among the guys and the girls.Guess who won?The guys.Questions we asked is like, What is our dream car?Name all our ex boyfriend's name, Name 3 brands we usually buy when we go shopping.
Friday, November 4, 2011
Miss Astro 2011

Yes, I am really outdated.I just know that my junior is crowned Miss Astro 2011.I regret not watching the contest live in astro, my mum, bro, and grandma watched it.
Talking about beauty pageants, I would really love to join if I have the chance.But I guess I don't have the qualities of being a beauty queen.Congrats to Lim Jia Bing, you made our faculty proud! Wish you all the best in your next round!Will definitely watch the round live!
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
In the month of Nov and about forgiveness
In oct, I got a lot of sales for the personalised names.In Early nov, which means now, I am still getting orders everyday.
Yesterday, I went to Megamall to shop.I bought some stuff.As usual, every month after getting my salary, I will go on a shopping spree. What did I buy this time?I Bought an umbrella, a flower hair clip, Nail Polish, a pair of shoes and some sushi.Yup, I love sushi.
2 days ago, I received a call frm a long time old best friend.Was very happy to hear frm her.She is working at Australia and she got her PR.I haven't seen her for 5 years after my form 6. A very nice sweet, pretty girl with a nice personality.
I believe that everything we do has consequences.What goes around comes around.If you do good, something good will happen to you.If we do something bad, something bad will return to you.Sooner or later, everything you did will come back to you.
I also believe that we should forgive people and also ourselves.If we can't forgive, we suffer the most. Resentment is detrimental to your health.So, I admit very honestly that right now, I do not hate anybody.Those who hurt me or wronged me, I have let go. I try my best to be nice to everybody I meet.I won't take revenge at all.Because I read in the daily bread, and it says, revenge restrained is a victory gained.And facebook also says, do not take revenge, those who are bad to you will screw themselves sometime or later.If you are lucky, God will let you watch. Yes, this is very true, I have experienced it, many times. So, what is the moral of my post today?Buat baik dibalas baik baik, buat jahat dibalas jahat.Every single thing you do counts, so think before you act.God bless you readers:)
Yesterday, I went to Megamall to shop.I bought some stuff.As usual, every month after getting my salary, I will go on a shopping spree. What did I buy this time?I Bought an umbrella, a flower hair clip, Nail Polish, a pair of shoes and some sushi.Yup, I love sushi.
2 days ago, I received a call frm a long time old best friend.Was very happy to hear frm her.She is working at Australia and she got her PR.I haven't seen her for 5 years after my form 6. A very nice sweet, pretty girl with a nice personality.
I believe that everything we do has consequences.What goes around comes around.If you do good, something good will happen to you.If we do something bad, something bad will return to you.Sooner or later, everything you did will come back to you.
I also believe that we should forgive people and also ourselves.If we can't forgive, we suffer the most. Resentment is detrimental to your health.So, I admit very honestly that right now, I do not hate anybody.Those who hurt me or wronged me, I have let go. I try my best to be nice to everybody I meet.I won't take revenge at all.Because I read in the daily bread, and it says, revenge restrained is a victory gained.And facebook also says, do not take revenge, those who are bad to you will screw themselves sometime or later.If you are lucky, God will let you watch. Yes, this is very true, I have experienced it, many times. So, what is the moral of my post today?Buat baik dibalas baik baik, buat jahat dibalas jahat.Every single thing you do counts, so think before you act.God bless you readers:)
Sunday, October 23, 2011
BUSINESS
Lately, my businness flourished because of making the personalised names bracelet and Hp strap.As you can see, there are total of 143 names made as requested by my lovely customers.There are more to come.Some customers are still thinking of the names of their relatives and friends to give for christmas or birthdays.
As for the customer who ordered 40 JOY hp straps, I have completed the order in 4 hours time.It was time consuming and my hand hurt a bit, but I enjoy making it.In the process, I cut my hand accidentally, thank God it was just a minor cut.It reminds me to be careful when using pliers in the future.
My customers ranged frm church members, pastors,relatives, students, teachers, boss, clerk and even outsiders.Thankyou very very much for your support toward my handmade products.You really made my day!
There are new charms and colors available but I have yet to post the pictures in my blog.
As for the customer who ordered 40 JOY hp straps, I have completed the order in 4 hours time.It was time consuming and my hand hurt a bit, but I enjoy making it.In the process, I cut my hand accidentally, thank God it was just a minor cut.It reminds me to be careful when using pliers in the future.
My customers ranged frm church members, pastors,relatives, students, teachers, boss, clerk and even outsiders.Thankyou very very much for your support toward my handmade products.You really made my day!
There are new charms and colors available but I have yet to post the pictures in my blog.
Monday, October 17, 2011
WOW!
I just got an sms from a former customer.She has bought from me many times.She asked me to make 40 Pieces of Hp strap with the words "JOY".I am so happy and I am going to buy more stock later.My personalised name business is so good until every week I have to restock my goods;)Thanks for your support, dearest readers and customers.For these 3 weeks, I have orders every day.Now my total order is more than 130 names, in just 3 weeks time:)And there are definitely more to come.Glory be to God.
Monday, September 19, 2011
Busy with orders once again
Some old repeating customer ordered products frm me worth RM500 to sell somewhere.Of course I give special discount, considering she is an old customer plus she buy in volume.I am supposed to complete the order within 2 weeks time and send to Penang.She ordered 20 angels of love in 6 different colors from me because she knows its my bestseller:)She also ordered some starfish charm necklaces and heartshaped necklaces, which is also one of my bestseller and also other products.This is one of the biggest order I have ever received.
So, if anyone of you decide to buy in big bulk, I can consider giving some special discount.Just contact me via email at crystalsparadize@gmail.com to discuss.Rest assured, I always strive to give the lowest price if possible to my loyal customers.
So, if anyone of you decide to buy in big bulk, I can consider giving some special discount.Just contact me via email at crystalsparadize@gmail.com to discuss.Rest assured, I always strive to give the lowest price if possible to my loyal customers.
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Nasi Lemak 2.0 review

Recently, I watched Nasi Lemak 2.0 At cinema.It was very funny and you can hear people laughing almost every 5 minutes throughout the show.It was a low budget movie, but it was very good.Do you know what inspired me to watched the movie? Because I just finished watching The Return of The Condor Heroes not long ago.This nasi lemak movie has some characters which are similiar to that TV series.There was Xiao Long nu, Huang da xia and also the white haired sifu.Some malaysian celebrities also acted in that movie, which includes, reshmonu, Alley Cat, Karen Kong and Dennis Lau.
You will enjoy this show, if you like Phua Chu Kang and most importantly you must be a malaysian to truly enjoy it, because there are so many local jokes, which are related to Malaysian issues.This movie is worth a watch.I am planning to buy the DVD as well.
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