KINDNESS 101

I am reading a new book rite now entitled LOVE AS A WAY OF LIFE by Gary Chapman.The first chapter is about kindness.I would like to list down some genuine acts of kindess ppl has shown me in these years, those which I remember vividly.

1. My BM teacher who gave me RM1 to buy Milo when I was hungry and no money to buy food when I was standard 3 (9 years old).I still remember his name:Ng Chee Keong.He used to teased me as Hallelujah because I sing a lot in class.When I put on braces, he called me " Beautiful teeth".

2.My grandmother who gave me RM200 to pay for thesis binding and printing, as a result I graduated in time and scored a B+ for my degree thesis.

3.A volunteer in a camp, currently a pastor now(Pastor Richard Lee) who gave a listening ear to my problems in a teens camp.He established the Kenosis Drug rehabilitation centre.There is another counsellor in the camp who also is a very good listener named YEO SWEE LAN.I would like to thank her here and I really hope to meet her again.

4.My cousin Amy Tan who cooked me nice food when I was not feeling well.She brought me magazines such as CLEO, HOT and a book by Nicholas Sparks entitled "THE WEDDING"

5.My dear cousin Carina Chong who massaged for me when I was having a bad headache during Chinese New Year.

6.My Science teacher Puan Noraini when I was form 1 and form 2.She told me;" Your mother is your best friend"

6.My homeroom teacher when I was form 2, who taught me Sejarah and BM, named Cik Sri Devi, who was very kind to me when I needed help.

7.Pastor Stanley Lai who was a like a father to me.He always hug me when he comes to preach in my church and he was kind to me.

8.Pastor Eddie Tan who answers my call and sms when I needed his advice and prayer.He also offered to conduct postmarital counselling for me and shaun.Not many pastors does that.

9.Pastor Lim Hang Tang who helped me during my car accident.

10.Leong Kwai Chee, who prayed a lot for me when I am not feeling well.Thankyou so much for your concern.

11. My sis in law Gobby who always buy me gifts for my b'day.

12.My violin teacher, Prody who was so patient with me although I always skip class

13.My cousin Magdalene Koh who helped me get 2 second hand beading books from Singapore for a very good price.

14.My coursemate Melisa Ng who was nice to me and was thoughtful.

15.Hong Pik Tze, who gave me the book " The four seasons of marriage" as my wedding gift.

16.My dear junior Teh Jun Bin who gave me some good advise he has learnt at some motivation classes.

17.Jessie Chua who fetched me to work last time as Ernst and Young.

18.Emma Tang who lent me her original Guzheng book and was such a friendly girl

19.Shieh Yi Xin who recommended me some jobs to do.I will always remember the good times we had in Uni.

20.Yeo Hock Chai who helped me with my uni korean exam.without him, I would not have passed my korean test.Kamsahamnida!

21.Dr Chong Yew Yoong, who was my thesis advisor at Uni.He was so encouraging and humble and sacrifice his lunch time to discuss with me.You are the lecturer who made the greatest impact in my life.

22.A malay classmate during form 6 named Shahiratul Azmin.She was very nice to me but too bad we totally lost contact.I wish to see her again.

23.Mun Pit Wai and Yow Veng Wai, who were my 2 very best friends who migrated to overseas to study and work.You have made my life so wonderful.

24.Wong Kit ying who visited me when I had dengue fever.

25.Miss Moey Yoke Lai who taught me Bible knowledge and as a result I scored A1 in my SPM.

26.Jonathan Loo was a wonderful prayer warrior.I always sms him to pray for me when I needed help.

27.My cousin Isaac Koh who invited me to his graduation prom and he offered to pay half for me.

28.My aunt Fong Peck Wan who bought me lunch when I had fever and could not drive to buy food.

29.My uncle James Wong and Joy chen who bring me out for nice dinner during my b'days when I  was young.We Went to eat at "The Ship" , and itallian food with my oth cousins.Pure fun!

30.My cousin Angelyn Wong who gave me a card and gift for my b'day this year.Her gift made my day.

31.Joyce Tan was a good listener during uni days and my accompanist for uni vocal exam.

32. Bernard Lee who was such a good salesman who served me very well when I buy beading supplies at the wholesaler.

33.Mrs Lim Hean Hwa who was such a wonderful BM teacher during form 6.

34. Seow Choon Hui who bought me 100 plus when I was thirsty in merentas desa.He also initiated to say hi to me.Now, we are still in contact.

35.Mr Wong, who repaired my violin for me for free.

36.Ms Yim Soi Chee, who got my bow rehaired for a good price.She took the trouble to always provide me good services although she is so busy.

37.Thean Kim Pin who helped to pass items to me.I always buy books and accesories through her.

38.My aunt Eunice Fung and Uncle Allan who took me out to nice dinner at Victoria Station on my 13th b'day.

29.My Aunt Johanna Fong who also took me out to nice dinner with uncle Eddie Lee during my b'day.I wil always remember the sushi king we ate and the Piccolo Mondo lasagne and ice blended mocha.Haha...And also the wonderful korean food, the OX tongue! I just ate ox tongue today, and I will always love ox tongue becoz you introduced it to me...

30.A very handsome british examiner named Dr Stephen when I was taking my gd 8 piano exam.He was such a gentleman and he opened the door for me when my exam was over.I got a merit.

31.My beautiful and sexy boss Shervon who is so gentle and kind to me and give me good advice.She gave birth to 2 children but still maintains a stunning figure and great fashion sense.

32.My boss Ms Tan who always pay my salary on time.She is one of the best boss I ever had.

33. Helen Lim Lay Kuan who recently gave me delicious macadamia nut chocolate from australia and offer to buy some more flavors for me. FYI, shaun and I fight over the chocolate.We can't resist eating it when we see it. haha...

34.Sister Loh Chui Gor who was the ex-youth advisor in my church.She gave me some advice and help me a lot.I wish she will come back to church with her husband uncle Richard Young.

35.Mrs Julie Yap, my maths and CF teacher who prayed for me when I am not feeling well.

36.Wong Tze Chi and Ng Guan Wen, 2 seniors who are so kind to me when I was in form 6 .Now they are practising doctors, waiting to earn big bucks.

37.Puan Chong Moy Yoong, a very nice Pengajian Am teacher in form 6.

38.Puan Goh Hwee Hong, a pretty Pengajian Perniagaan teacher in form 6.

39.Cikgu Nor Azman, my favourite BM tuition teacher at Pusat Tusyen Martin.You made BM and sejarah so interesting! You inspired me to draw comics about you.

40.Mr Kung, the most fantastic Modern maths teacher at Pusat tusyen Martin.Handsome, big sized and sweat a lot, very funny.By attending your class, I dun need to pay attention in school and still can score A1 For maths.

41.Puan Faezah, my Form 4 and Form 5 BM teacher who was concerned about my progress.She adds me in FACEBOOK and wished me happy b'day recently.

42.Chor Mun Fei, who lend me his 10k Violin to play for my composing exam in uni.Thanks to you, I scored A minus for  the subject.I loved your violin, and it inspired me to buy a nice violin for myself too, which I did.Congrats on your masters studies in Springfield, USA. I bet you forget that such event happened and I remember it.

43..And lastly, the salesman who sold me this book(LOVE AS A WAY OF LIFE) at Salvation bookstore.Thankyou for recommending this wonderful book.May God bless you!


And my mum and younger bro and my darling Shaun, who has been kind to me so many times that I lost count and its not possible to post here.I love you guys very much and will continue to strife to learn to speak your love language.

I might have many other names which I have forgotten. Its 4.11 am now, gotta sleep.Got class tmr morn.I spent 2 hours compiling this long list of kindness.